5 Major Life Changes: Transitioning Successfully

Nobody enjoys dramatic life changes. They tend to be shocking and turbulent and frequently shake the foundations of your very existence. Unfortunately, they also happen like clockwork – you can expect one every 12 to 18 months, says a The Atlantic report. If you aren’t dealing with one already, it’s probably just around the corner.

Is there something you can do? You can’t avoid changes, but you can be prepared. If you learn how to have and maintain a resilient mental state, you can come through any transition with flying colors. Here, Bliss Life Mag shares five common life changes and offers some advice on dealing with them.

1. Buying a house

Buying a home is, typically, a massive financial investment as well as a big responsibility. It’s also something you need to get right: about half of all homeowners in America have buyer’s remorse due to poor purchase choices, according to CNBC news. To avoid being in the same boat, get clear about what buying a house entails. Check your credit score, organize your paperwork for your lender, find a solid real estate agent, figure out how much you can spend, and take your time when choosing a home.

2. A serious road accident

About 4.4 million people get seriously injured due to road accidents each year. Recovery times can range from weeks to months, and it tends to impact everything from work to finances. A solid self-care routine is essential to overcoming the trauma. Surrounding yourself with loved ones can help. Also, it’s a good idea to spend your time constructively – you may not be able to work, but you can learn, acquire a skill, and grow in other ways. 

3. Marriage

Marriage is, arguably, the biggest commitment you’ll have in your lifetime. With divorce rates hovering near the 50 percent mark, it’s also something you need to take seriously. Being in a relationship requires skill, and relationships need maintenance – be prepared. Some tips for having a successful marriage from experts are not sweating the small stuff, going on dates periodically, and making your spouse a priority.

4. Losing a job

Unemployment can hurt both your finances and self-confidence. It’s important to focus on the future instead of the past and be proactive if this happens to you. Some suggestions are managing your emotions, doing the inner work, making changes, researching the job market, picking up a new skill (if applicable), picking up a temporary survival job, and finding a new one.

5. Starting a business

Starting a new company is a gamble – the payoff can be big, but you have to invest a significant amount of time, energy, and money into it all. Research, a solid business idea, a business plan, a reliable team, and concrete goals can help you find success. It also pays to safeguard your assets against lawsuits by forming an LLC. 

Your mental health is everything

Solid mental health is essential to surviving life transitions. Practicing gratitude, mindfulness, optimism, and looking on the bright side of things are some ways you can better cope with turbulence. Find activities that help you reduce stress, strengthen your mind, and stay in good mental (and physical) health.

Conclusion 

Whatever change is on the horizon for you – a marriage, a home purchase, or a new business launch – it pays to see it as a blessing instead of a curse. It may be hard to deal with it, but the experience can make you stronger mentally. It pushes you out of your comfort zone and allows you to make lasting, positive changes in your life. 

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